ConstantCommentary® Vol. II, No. 32, October 15, 1998

So Sue Me . . .

by Mike Jasper


 Some men are Dicks

Semantics... counts.

When I meet a guy named Richard and he tells me, "Please, call me Dick," I pay attention. I figure it's a warning. I remember Nixon, after all.

Think about it. You've got a lot of nickname options with Richard. You've got Rich, Richie, Rick, Ricky and sometimes Chard. Yet many choose Dick. Which I can understand. If your name is Dichard.

Why not call yourself scrotum nose?

It gets worse. I once worked with a guy who went by the name Dick Cruise. That's a great name. If you're a porn star or a promiscuous homosexual.

Want worse? A friend of mine once had a job interview with a man called Dick Hunt. Say that aloud a few times. Nice ring to it, huh? That's a good name. For a hermaphrodite.

I once worked in an office that used an A.B. Dick. This Dick is a mimeograph machine. A mimeograph (also called a ditto machine) works like a photocopier except the finished copies are light blue and barely readable. There is no way to use a mimeograph machine without getting blue ink on your hands and clothes.

I decided the office should consider using modern equipment, so I led the "Dump the Dick" campaign. It worked. We dumped the mimeograph machine and got a photocopier. Most of the time, it's not so easy to get rid of the Dicks in your life.

When I was in the first grade, we learned how to read using the Dick & Jane series of textbooks. In this way, children are introduced to reading and Dicks at an early age. I've only met one Jane since then. But I've seen plenty of Dicks in my life.

If I owned a dog, I'd probably call him Dick. If I had a son, I'd name him Cocksucker. Then I'd invite my parents over for the introductions. Yep. That's exactly what I would do. If I owned a dog. And had a son. And stood to gain an inheritance.

I have to admit, I've never thought about Dicks so much in my life. But it's only for the sake of this column. Honest.

FAMOUS DICKS IN HISTORY

In literature, we find Melville's Moby Dick. This Dick happens to be an incredibly huge whale. The biggest white Dick in history, I'll wager. Melville must have been so proud.

In stock car racing, there's a driver called Dick Trickle. (I ask you, is there any better time in history to write a humor column?) True, he has no control over the last name. But he could have done something about the first name. I'm thinking the name Dick Trickle is a date-breaker.

Nixon was known as Dick Nixon until he became President. Then he was known as King Richard.

Dick Cavett's name doesn't give us much trouble, probably because we're too busy criticizing his whiny-ass Yale accent.

Dick Morris -- the Clinton advisor who was forced to resign because he had an extramarital affair and wasn't the President ­ is a Dick. But whenever I hear his name I think of Morris the Cat. (No, no, no. I refuse to do a pussy joke and a dick joke in the same paragraph.)

There was a baseball player called Dickie Thon. Dickie is similar to Dick, but smaller. Whenever I hear the name Dickie Thon, I hear Dickie THONG. If you have a Dickie, you don't really need a thong.

How about Dick Butkus, the ex-football player? There's a name that covers the Full Monty. No one ever made fun of this Dick, though. Cause this Dick can kill you.

Dick Van Dyke? Don't get me started.

The late 50's TV show -- "I Love Lucy" -- featured no Dicks. Lucy did have a child called Little Ricky. But he wasn't called Little Dickie. That's because TV writers understand semantics. Imagine Desi Arnaz yelling, "Luuuuuucccccccyyyyyyyy? Have you seen Little Dickie?"

I can think of a few more Dicks. Dick Tracy (a private Dick), Dick Louden (Bob Newhart's TV Dick), Dick York (cold as a witch's Dick) and Dick Clark... actually I kind of like Dick Clark.

I'm sure you'll have no trouble thinking up a few Dicks of your own.

IT'S A GUY THING

There is no Dick equivalent on the female side (with the possible exception of Candy, but I'm probably just reading too much into it). Have you ever met a woman who said, "My name's Theresa, but please... call me Tits?" (If you have, send me her e-mail address.) We have women called Babs, but we don't have women called Boobs. Boobs can be found. But only on the male side.

See how I am? Kissing up to women like that?

Sometimes people are stuck with questionable names through no fault of their own. I have a friend whose last name is Licht. I used to ask him, "What's it like having a name in the past tense?" Another friend's last name is Cox. "What's it like having a name that's plural?" But these are last names. They were handed to them at birth. And while grade school must have been tough, at least they didn't CHOOSE to lead a life of double meaning and sexual innuendo.

Me, I want a new name. Something that gives people fair warning about my personality. If I have to live in a world where Dicks are loosed on the world, then I want some ammo.

Call me Badass Motherfucker. Badass Motherfucker Jasper, that's the name I want. Sounds like a rap star. Besides, the name suits my background.

I had a tough childhood.

I thought I had conquered my childhood issues until I discovered that I could still milk them as an excuse for another 20 years or so. I blame my mother. She would say terrible things to me, things that shaped my life forever, things such as, "Your mouth will get you into trouble" or "You're never going to amount to anything" or -- the one I really hate -- "You're a lousy lay, just like your father." So please... call me Badass Motherfucker.

Wait! I changed my mind. Call me Lick. Lick Jasper. It makes sense. It follows the same geometry as Dick. Richard... Rick... Dick. Michael... Mick... Lick. Works for me.

Hmmm. I've been trying to think of a clever way to end this, but nothing's coming. Guess it doesn't matter.

This column don't mean dick to me anyway.

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STANDARD DISCLAIMER: This column aims to be funny. If you can read anything else into it, you're on your own. Copyright 1998 by Mike Jasper.