I could lie before I could walk.
(I made
that last line up, by the way.)
When I was a kid I was taught
honesty by
way of a story called "George Washington and the
Cherry Tree." It went
like this:
- Mom: You shouldn't lie about stealing
cookies, Michael. I'm not
mad because you stole the cookies. I'm mad
because you lied about it.
Me: Oh.
- Mom: Let me tell you a story about George
Washington and the
cherry tree. When George Washington was...
Me: Who's George Washington?
- Mom: He was the first president of the
United States. You didn't
know that?
Me: I'm only 12.
- Mom: Uh-huh. Anyway, when George
Washington was a little boy he
chopped down a cherry tree and...
Me: Why did he do that?
- Mom: I don't know. Can you let me finish
the story? Please.
(Pause as she glares me into submission.) When
George Washington was a
little boy, he chopped down a cherry tree. His
father found out and
asked him, "George, who chopped down the cherry
tree?"
Me: Was he standing next to the tree with
a hatchet in
his hand?
- Mom: MICHAEL, SHUT UP AND LET ME FINISH
THE STORY! (Bigger pause
followed by a sigh.) George Washington said,
"Father, I cannot tell a
lie. I chopped down the cherry tree."
Me: He couldn't tell a lie or he wouldn't
tell a lie?
- Mom: THAT'S IT. GO TO YOUR ROOM!
I learned a very important lesson
that
day: Don't fuck with mom when she's on her period.
That and George
Washington was an idiot. He couldn't tell a lie?
What a simp.
By the way, the story about
George
Washington my mom tried to tell me to point out
the value of honesty?
It's a lie.
The other story my mother told me
was
called "The Little Boy Who Cried Wolf." In this
story, a little
shepherd boy pulls a practical joke on a mountain
village town by
yelling, "Wolf! Wolf! Wolf!" just to get the World
War II generation
off their lazy asses and out into the fields. He
pulled this trick
twice, much to his delight and amusement. I didn't
interrupt my mom
during this story, cause I liked this boy. I
wanted to be this boy.
After the second false alarm, the
shepherd
boy really did see a wolf approaching and cried
out, "Wolf! Wolf!
Wolf!" The town's people ignored his lying ass and
the wolf ate the
boy. Moral of the story: If George Washington had
handed the shepherd
boy his hatchet, they both would have gotten away
with their lies.
The truth is, you can cry wolf
many times
and people will still believe it. I know for a
fact that you can get
away with a lie at least -- let me check the
column number -- 98 times
in a row before anyone catches on.
But lately a lot of my negative
mail has
revolved around my lack of veracity, especially as
it pertains to
women. And most of my negative mail has been from
women, because women
appreciate honesty more than men. Provided it's
the honesty they want
to hear.
"You're the prettiest woman I've
ever
seen." I don't get questioned about that lie very
much.
Of course, if you lie about
something
important, it's a different story.
"I'm not mad because you fucked
13 women
in a three-week span. I'm mad because you lied
about it."
Right. It's both, believe me. I
learned
that back when I was stealing cookies.
Last week I got an e-mail that
read, "So
you feel there is no moral or ethical distinction
between honesty and
dishonesty. That's quite self-serving, innit?
Especially for spineless
jerks who refuse to take responsibility for their
own actions."
Yeah. I fuckin' hate those guys.
Stupid,
stupid spineless jerks. And I loved your work in
Spinal Tap.
But where did she get the
information to
form this opinion? One of my columns, right? So...
how does she know I
wasn't lying when I wrote it? Truth is, you can't
really do comedy of
any kind without lying, unless you're Michael
Pritchard or Argus
Hamilton. Who are they? I rest my case.
"I'm not mad because you killed
Ron and
Nicole, O.J., I'm mad because you lied about it
convincingly enough to
get acquitted."
Most people lie every damn day
because we
don't want to hurt people's feelings. It's called
tact, and to employ
tact you either have to lie or keep your fuckin'
mouth shut. That's why
I try not to leave the house or answer the phone.
"Do I look fat in this outfit?"
"Yeah. But you're pregnant, right?"
Of course, sometimes we lie
because we
don't want to hurt people's feelings or get our
ass kicked. Late in my
last marriage, I once (only once, I swear) came
home drunk and freshly
laid. The wife was watching Saturday Night Live
and Jon Lovitz was
performing The Liar Guy. Life soon imitated art:
- Wife: Where were you?
- Me: At the bar.
- Liar Guy: Ahhh, surfing in Afri-- noooo...
Madagascar.
- Wife: Did you go anywhere else?
- Me:
No, just the bar.
Liar Guy: And I caught a wave so big
it carried me
to Scandin-- no, Hawaii. Yeah, that's the
ticket.
- Wife: Were you with someone else?
Me: Fuck no. You want to smell my dick?
You already
smelled my breath for booze.
Liar Guy: And there I made love to
super model
Kathy, ahhhh, Elizabeth Taylor. Yeah, that's
what happened.
Look. Men don't really want to
lie. Women
force us into it by asking us questions.
"What do you want to do tonight?"
"Am I getting bags around my eyes?"
"Were you looking at that girl's breasts?"
"Do you know where you're going?"
"Are you sure you can lift that sofa?"
If men asked women that many
questions,
we'd be fed a pack of lies too. But men only ask
women one question, so
women are able to tell the same lie over and over.
Where's the art in
that?
Of course, the one question men
ask women
is... ahhhhh, never mind. You know the question.
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STANDARD DISCLAIMER: This column aims to be
funny. If
you can read anything else into it, you're on your
own. Copyright 2000
by Mike Jasper.