Men are from Mars and women
want my penis
(... I'm from the planet Uron.)
"You know, Jasper, it seems like people either love you
or hate you." This great revelation was pointed out to me
by a friend of mine several years ago. Man, that guy loved me.
Hates me now, though.
It's a cyclical thing, the inevitable evolution of all my
relationships, whether it's with male or female. It's a simple
five-point formula:
1) Mike Jasper's an asshole.
2) You know, once you get to know him, he's not as bad as you
might think.
3) I fuckin' love that guy!
4) You know, I'm not sure about him anymore.
5) Mike Jasper's an asshole.
Oh, well. Like the shark, I must constantly swim for new meat.
Nothing's constant but change. And cliches. So all my life I've
had to work to meet new people, since the old ones eventually
turned on me. Fortunately, all my life the world has conspired
to make finding new friends easier for me. During the 70s, it
was free love. And during the 80s? Personal ads. The 90s brought
email and the new century brought... well, too much email really.
And I was so counting on Y2K.
Personal Ads were the best. Even the name cracks me up --
Personal Ads. Thirty to 200 words plastered over the most thoroughly
read pages of any weekly newspaper in America, and it's called
personal. They should really be called Anonymous Ads or Public
Ads or Pathetic Ads or... naw, we'll stick with irony. Personal
Ads.
The best personal ad I ever read was in Pacific Sun, a Marin
County weekly. For those who don't know, Marin County created
the yuppie before the label existed. No better place to read
personal ads than the Pacific Sun.
And no better personal ad in the Pacific Sun than the following,
which I managed to save over the years. It was placed in the
Men Seeking Women section.
Warning: Do not read this ad!!!!
- Hi. You know me. I'm the guy you keep telling yourself you're
going to avoid. I'm the guy who doesn't call when he says he
will, sees other women though you wish he wouldn't, and generally
drives you crazy to the point of tears or worse. Every time you've
been with me, it's been a mistake and an emotional roller coaster
ride. And every time you break it off with me (finally) you swear,
"Never again!"
-
- But let's face it. You're not going to really swear me off,
for you are weak. Despite the pain and utter insanity, I've got
what you want. Great sex. Incredible sex. And even though you
think you should give up Mr. Right Now and start looking for
Mr. Right to settle down with, let's face it -- you're not going
to do it.
-
- Sure, you'll spend your days with a socially conscious, vegetarian,
bird-and-bunny supporter who is willing to support you in your
efforts to "Save The Whiney Warbler." But that's all
for show. That's just window dressing for your friends. "See?
I've changed." Forget it. There's plenty of time to change.
What you want right now is the ultimate orgasm, because you're
young. Wait until you're 45 to settle down. What's the rush?
In the meantime, have I got a wild ride for you.
-
- So go ahead. Pick up the phone and call the number after
this ad. It won't cost you a dime. Come on, go ahead and do it.
You know you're going to throw it all away on someone anyway.
Why not me? Me, who knows you.
-
- Sincerely, The Lickmaster.
PS - Married okay.
To this day, that ad still amazes me. Almost as much as when
I wrote it.
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